We have been trying to get in touch with you about your automobile warranty.
This singular phrase, not to mention the other nonsense that goes with it, caused me to kill the Magic Jack.
There is a good chance that in this day and time, some of you are so lonely that a call from someone (a robot) trying to sell you something you don’t need is a good thing. Not me.
The one phone I have not killed only rings in one room. I removed all of the other phones and tossed them. The recycle bin has at least six phones, two base units, and a Magic Jack. They all work perfectly; I want them gone.
My internet phone will be the following line silenced by the end of this year. I plan to port that number to a cell phone that I can turn off.
As a writer, I don’t need the distractions every thirty minutes by some telemarketer. (A robot.)
As a person attempting to hang on to my sanity, I certainly don’t need interruptions.
Many of you might feel this way; I pay for the phone for my use, not that of robots.
Not that many years ago, I called a friend I had not heard from in years. The screeching voice on the other end of the phone shocked me. “WHAT DO YOU WANT!?”
My friend was probably two steps further down the road than I am. Embarrassed by his response, he will not call, and that friendship is lost.
I don’t want to be that cray-cray voice on the other end of the line. Mitigating the interruptions early on seems to be one way to keep my sanity intact.
Magic Jack has tried to lure me back into the fold with deals. Your device, along with several phones, cables, and power adapters, will soon be in a grinding machine turning it back into the dust from which it came.
It’s not often I quote the bible, and this is a paraphrase, but…Mathew 5:27-30 If thine right eye offends thee pluck it out…
What that means is, if there is something in your life that causes you to stumble, remove it.
My passion in life is to improve my craft of writing and put out material that is worth reading. With the phone ringing every few minutes, the impediment to my goal is obvious.
Screens, Alexa, and a host of other diversions are also part of the issue. As you discover which ones are which, pluck them out. Alexa is off my desk, and when I am writing, I put it in do not disturb.
In all honesty, I can tell you that social media is an impediment and an unhealthy addiction. Many that I know only check it when on the toilette. That might be a good strategy if you can keep to it.
What if you cannot keep to it? What if you sit up half the night and find yourself scrolling through endless want-to-be-influencers with stupid videos?
Is this time on social media time that you are taking away from your family?
Is Social media that important?
Do you think that all those 468 friends would come to your funeral if god forbid the covid got you?
Are you so insecure that you need the affirmations from people you don’t even know to like your latest cat picture?
Yes, there can be mental issues with Social media, and they can be severe enough that getting professional help might be advisable.
What about those friends and the baby pictures???
Here is a simple test to tell how important they are.
If you were to remove Facebook from your phone or tablet, how many of those ‘friends’ would take the time to write you an e-mail or letter?
How many of those same people would you take the time to reach out to via the written word?
Those are the only people that truly matter in your life. The rest are just noise.
Noise, much like the ringing of the phone, is toxic. Remove it.