Paraphrased, this is probably the question that I get asked the most.
To know what direction you are headed you need what? You need a goal. If I, for instance, wanted to drive to Chicago from Dallas how would that work?
When I was a lot younger and had no deadlines pressing me, I might throw some clothes in a couple of bags, hire someone to watch the house, get into the car and point it north.
I love road trips without real purpose. However, we have stated that we have an end goal of arriving in Chicago.
Heading north as stated earlier would not get me to Chicago but North Dakota or Minnesota if not Canada. Again all great destinations but, missing our goal entirely.
Firstly we must map out our route which even with the technology we have today, there are several possibilities.
There was a time in my life when driving for twelve or thirteen hours straight was no big deal. Now, not so much. I would at least stop halfway. Planning my trip today would include points of interests along the way, and I would indeed drive out of my way to see or visit something along the way. These types of activities often provide fodder for manuscripts.
Let’s face it, if time were a real issue, I would hop on board a plane and be there within hours.
My action plan would include proper clothing for the season, as well as places to stop along the way.
The action plan would indeed include something known as “Time management.”
Writing a term paper or a novel is not much different. With time being the common denominator that we all share, it is also the one thing that we must all guard against wasting.
What do you do with your time?
If you are uncertain about the validity of what I am saying; for a week log every minute of your day. Don’t cheat. Much like writing what you eat to assist you in a diet, try keeping up with what you did during the day. Time management is crucial, and you must be good at it to be successful in life.
I think that sitting in front of the TV being conditioned continuously by whatever you are putting into your head is possibly one of the worst ways of wasting your precious time on this earth. I truly think that it also dulls your senses and might rob you of who you truly are by supplanting what you know for ideas which are just bullshit. Someone’s ideas that are put forth in a way to convince you that your long-held beliefs are false.
That is my opinion, and possibly you have a differing one. We all know people who live through the TV. Cancelling the cable might be not only a good money saver but, you might find you now have time to do other things.
Not only do we have TV and Netflix but, we have the computer or internet, and of course we have our tablets or phones to steal our time. We spend so much time communicating nonsense with countless others, that we don’t communicate with those that we are the closest to.
How do you manage to write so much and work a daytime job?
What little I see of TV in passing makes me shake my head. Hundreds of cable channels to fill and they come up with some of the lamest stuff ever. I am waiting for one of the channels to be of grass growing or paint drying.
Our Culture is changing and in many ways, I don’t think for the better. Morality has taken a hit as our role models now often spend time behind bars for beating their wives or some other criminal offense.
I could go on and write a complete book about narcissist and sycophants but that is outside the scope of this blog post. If you want a role model, my friends, look into the mirror and become that which you seek!
Years ago I was on a cruise to Alaska and we parked by one of the glaciers watching it melt. Yes, if it were not just a glorious day to be outside on the balcony watching ice melt, I would have been pissed. Finally a large chunk of ice “calved” and that was the highlight of the afternoon. The massive ship rocked as the ripple from the tons of ice falling into the abyss reached out to us. Feeling the effect of the displacement of so much water, made the time spent stationary that afternoon, and subsequent sunburn, more tolerable.
Don’t misunderstand me, you must do things in life, especially if you are a writer. You must travel. You must speak with people of all walks of life. I make it a point to learn people’s names and something about them wherever I go. People are what make life worth it to me. You are interesting. Sitting in front of the TV like so many do, getting spoon fed someone’s idea of what is morally acceptable changes the entire audience over time.
The Stepford wives come to mind as so many people around the globe watch things produced in Hollywood. Our values or Hollywood’s values reach far and wide.
In Saga of the Starduster, I have my aliens tune into our TV to see what they are about to deal with. Finding Sharknado on the screen, their first impressions are that the sharks are the apex life forms, and humans are their prey. Not too far from reality except these sharks travel by manipulating vortices and attack bipedal creatures who have chainsaws mounted on their appendages.
When the Ularins tune across a football game, my aliens think that this is some sort of war and the football must be explosive.
If Aliens were listening to our radio and watching our Hollywood version of life, what would they think?
“How do I manage to write so much?”
I try not to waste time, and I scheduled several hours a day to either write or market my books. Having said that I also look for opportunities to go out into the world and be part of it. Watching it through the eyes of some Hollywood producer is not the way I care to figure out who we are as a people and why we are the way that we are.
Time management is key to life in general, not just creating your first or twenty-first novel. Make time for what you are passionate about. If that is writing, don’t let a good idea get lost in the shuffle of the noise in our lives.
You Mom’s and want to be authors, don’t allow your dreams to get cast aside. God invented Bed Times so parents can still live a life. Enforce them while killing the internet and other things that might keep the urchins up and in your face. We had quite times an hour before bedtime which meant they could read. Lights out was strictly enforced. Not only so they got enough sleep, but so we could still have some modicum of life. Phones are taken away at dinner time, and bedtime. There is no excuse to allow a child to take an active screen to bed with them. Like us, they need their sleep.
Laptops and writing worked just as well as reading for me as an author. Just saying.
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